optimism

We all need a little optimism in our life's. without it life you suck. we would never be happy or able to enjoy moments because all we would do is doubt everything and think life was crap, which it would be.
I recently started chatting to this girl when i was on my ,amazing, Boyfriends face book account. we hit it off right away gossiping and talking about normal teenage girl stuff...boys. Boys are the bain of every teenage girls life, do they like us?, are they in it just for action? do you think they mean it when they say they love you?. Yes these are all questions we ask our self's and talk to our mates about. But What we forget when we are talking about being dumped or wondering if he is the "one" is that at this stage in life, and for most of our adult life, Boys will come and go but our friend will be their no matter what. We have our family's and our friends as support systems. We are loved and if this ONE guy cant see it then frankly he is not worth it and the right guy will come along, and he will love you and tell you how amazing you are. You just have to hold out for him, you have to go through the ride of being dumped or rejected to be able to find him. So live life like today is your last and love and know you are loved.  Just go with the flow, and  remember no matter what shit life throuws at you, you have all the love you need just look around you :)