20110401
Elena Dobretsova
This is a link to a girl who is tuly beautiful insde and out. who is a newly converted optimist and who should know that she is AMAZING and that she is WORTH soooo much and that she really has made an impact on my life. I know we havent met but honestly i hope we do you have inspired me to have a more positive out look on life and has made me realise the impact of my own actions on others. :) Her name is Elena Dobretsova and this is her blog check it out she is anamazing person :) http://elenaischill.tumblr.com/
optimism
We all need a little optimism in our life's. without it life you suck. we would never be happy or able to enjoy moments because all we would do is doubt everything and think life was crap, which it would be.
I recently started chatting to this girl when i was on my ,amazing, Boyfriends face book account. we hit it off right away gossiping and talking about normal teenage girl stuff...boys. Boys are the bain of every teenage girls life, do they like us?, are they in it just for action? do you think they mean it when they say they love you?. Yes these are all questions we ask our self's and talk to our mates about. But What we forget when we are talking about being dumped or wondering if he is the "one" is that at this stage in life, and for most of our adult life, Boys will come and go but our friend will be their no matter what. We have our family's and our friends as support systems. We are loved and if this ONE guy cant see it then frankly he is not worth it and the right guy will come along, and he will love you and tell you how amazing you are. You just have to hold out for him, you have to go through the ride of being dumped or rejected to be able to find him. So live life like today is your last and love and know you are loved. Just go with the flow, and remember no matter what shit life throuws at you, you have all the love you need just look around you :)
I recently started chatting to this girl when i was on my ,amazing, Boyfriends face book account. we hit it off right away gossiping and talking about normal teenage girl stuff...boys. Boys are the bain of every teenage girls life, do they like us?, are they in it just for action? do you think they mean it when they say they love you?. Yes these are all questions we ask our self's and talk to our mates about. But What we forget when we are talking about being dumped or wondering if he is the "one" is that at this stage in life, and for most of our adult life, Boys will come and go but our friend will be their no matter what. We have our family's and our friends as support systems. We are loved and if this ONE guy cant see it then frankly he is not worth it and the right guy will come along, and he will love you and tell you how amazing you are. You just have to hold out for him, you have to go through the ride of being dumped or rejected to be able to find him. So live life like today is your last and love and know you are loved. Just go with the flow, and remember no matter what shit life throuws at you, you have all the love you need just look around you :)
20110330
Lighten up :)
The sun is out. its almost summer call your mates go chill have a barbeque or a pickni :) Just have a good time :)
SEX
Sex with a random, Sex with a partner and Sex with some one your in love with.
For the most of us girls loosing our virginity is a big thing. we watch movies about it we hear about it rom our parents and our sex-ed teachers. from a young age we are told that it is a big thing but is it? Is showing some one we care about them a bad thing? Is having Sex in a club bathroom bad ? No none of these things are bad those of us lucky enought to have some one to be able to show them we care for them. and for those less fortunate haveing sex in a club toilet is not neccessarily a bad thing, alot of people just do it to feel wanted and to be pleasured. And thats not a bad thing you just need to know that you are worth more than that. Find someone who cares about you.
For the most of us girls loosing our virginity is a big thing. we watch movies about it we hear about it rom our parents and our sex-ed teachers. from a young age we are told that it is a big thing but is it? Is showing some one we care about them a bad thing? Is having Sex in a club bathroom bad ? No none of these things are bad those of us lucky enought to have some one to be able to show them we care for them. and for those less fortunate haveing sex in a club toilet is not neccessarily a bad thing, alot of people just do it to feel wanted and to be pleasured. And thats not a bad thing you just need to know that you are worth more than that. Find someone who cares about you.
Sex Virginity Relationships and Reality
Ahhhhh Sex, and Virginity The thing most People cant wait for, Many want their first time to be perfect with Mr Right , others just want it to be over and done with so they can just go on and have fun.
The truth is we all want is to be in a loving relation ship and for it to be perfect but lets be realistic it ain't going to happen. Things like that only happen in movies but if the right person does come along and you have a perfect evening plan, remember perfect is a high standard and no-one can live up to it. so I'm not saying its going to be a disaster but who's first time isn't eh? what I'm saying is don't set any expectations because then they cant be ruined.
Relationships and Reality. the reality about relationship is that they are not ngoing to be a fairytale. but thats life they are amaing. Relationships are like a recipe some flavours work and some dont its just finding that one. and once you have found the right one you wont turn back :)
So good luck to all the single people in finding that person and also good luck to those people in relationships :)
The truth is we all want is to be in a loving relation ship and for it to be perfect but lets be realistic it ain't going to happen. Things like that only happen in movies but if the right person does come along and you have a perfect evening plan, remember perfect is a high standard and no-one can live up to it. so I'm not saying its going to be a disaster but who's first time isn't eh? what I'm saying is don't set any expectations because then they cant be ruined.
Relationships and Reality. the reality about relationship is that they are not ngoing to be a fairytale. but thats life they are amaing. Relationships are like a recipe some flavours work and some dont its just finding that one. and once you have found the right one you wont turn back :)
So good luck to all the single people in finding that person and also good luck to those people in relationships :)
LOVE. the big L word.
Love. The big L word. It all starts at when we are kids when we were read the fairytales, of princesses in far away places and their knights in shining armour comes and saves them, as we get older it becomes more real. we have crushes and we giggle about who kissed who. and then it hits us mid teen. we fall in LOVE. We start to have longer relation ships and have real deep feelings. we depend on our boyfriend/girlfriend . then their is always the worst part of LOVE the falling out of it or being dumped. we all have been through it and lets face it it sucks but We have to remember that we ARE loved we have our familys and our friends. But if you are in a loveing relationship and are in love cherrish the feeling :) enjoy every minute :) and remember tell you the people you love that you love them life is to short not to tell them you never know what is going to happen so live lif to its full and LOVE like there is no tomorrow :)
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